“Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.” ― Helen Keller.
Here are the remaining of the Resilience Factor in living your dream and living life big [living a life of significance].
3. R = Reach Out for Support
“We don’t have to do all of it alone. We were never meant to.” —Brené Brown.
Resilience is not a solo journey. Lincoln sought counsel from trusted advisors and leaned on his faith during tough times. Surround yourself with a supportive network of friends, mentors, and peers. Remember Adam Grant’s wisdom: “Seeking advice doesn’t reveal incompetence. It reflects respect for another person’s insight.”
4. P = Put Things in Perspective
“We don’t see things as they are; we see them as we are.” —Anaïs Nin.
When challenges arise, take a step back and reassess. Often, our perception of problems magnifies their impact. Lincoln’s ability to see beyond immediate struggles allowed him to lead with clarity and wisdom. Reframe obstacles as opportunities for growth, and you’ll approach challenges with renewed vigor.
5. O = Operate with Optimism
“The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty.” —Winston Churchill.
Lincoln’s optimism kept him steadfast even in the face of war and division. Cultivate a positive mindset by focusing on solutions rather than problems. Optimism is the fuel that keeps resilience burning brightly, even when the night is darkest.
6. S = Serve Others
“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” —Mahatma Gandhi.
Lincoln’s life was dedicated to serving his nation. Serving others not only creates a sense of purpose but also builds inner strength. Volunteer, mentor, or simply lend a helping hand—acts of service fortify your resilience and ripple outward to create a lasting impact.
7. E = Embrace Joy
“Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.” —Henri Nouwen.
Even amid trials, Lincoln found solace in storytelling and humor. Seek joy in the small moments—a kind word, a shared laugh, or a peaceful walk. Gratitude and joy rejuvenate the spirit, strengthening your resolve to keep moving forward.
Resilience: The Key to Living Life Big
Resilience is not just about bouncing back; it’s about bouncing forward with greater strength and wisdom. It transforms adversity into advantages, failure into fortitude, and dreams into reality. When you embrace resilience, you just don’t survive, you thrive. You don’t just dream—you live your dream. [To be continued].
